America The Marvelous

For many years there has been a series of books published annually with titles such as Best American Short Stories, Best American Science Fiction, Best American Non Essential Reading, etc….you get the picture.  I’ve been giving my brother-in-law Best American Short Stories for about 14 years, picking up the tradition after my mother died…..John has quite a library of that anthology.

As someone who thrives on travel I started reading Best American Travel Writing  a couple years ago.  The included stories come from magazines, blogs, travel websites, etc, that have been published in the previous year.  Some authors are very well known (Paul Theroux) to more obscure writers.  Last night I was reading the 2014 anthology and was struck by an article originally published in Vanity Fair Magazine titled America The Marvelous.

I’m not usually one who wears his patriotism on his sleeve….in fact no where near that person.  I’m often critical of our American culture (yes, I can be a snob).  I’ve traveled to Europe several times over the past few years and see most Europeans as more sophisticated than Americans….at least that’s what I decided to take away from my overseas experiences.  That said, I was always relieved once the wheels of the jumbo jet touched American soil on our return to the states.

So what do I see wrong with our country?  Are we not the fattest and least healthy country in the developed world?  Why can’t we see that we’re eating ourselves to death?  Why does our government  feel it’s our role to police the world?  Is racism really dead in America?  And is a society based on consumerism good for our souls?  Shouldn’t we value the arts, our diverse culture, friendships among the diverse nationalities that make up our population?  Why do we all feel it’s our way or the highway?  And why is your religion, or lack of, more ‘right’ than my beliefs?  “Can’t we all just get along”?

That’s just part of a long list of gripes I consider when watching  CNN, Fox, ABC, CBS and reading The Huffington Post, Grist, the AJC, Esquire, etc, etc, etc…  But I gotta tell you, A.A. Gill, the author of the above mentioned article America The Marvelous, has made me rethink my criticism of our country.  It’s so easy to look at the negative, so easy to be critical of those who don’t agree with your values and so easy and self righteous to think my way is the right way to live ones life.  Read the article….it’s short, succinct…and it just may give you a perspective that many of us have lost about America….it did me.

http://www.vanityfair.com/culture/2013/07/america-with-love-aa-gill-excerpt

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Add Some Zest to your “Friday Date Night”

Our friends Eve and Roger have a great blog called Friday Date Night.  They started the blog (see ABOUT below), that reviews local restaurants, when they found themselves dining out every Friday night as their weekly ‘date night’….what a great way to keep the relationship with your significant other fresh!  They’ve been writing the blog since 2011 and it is now the  #7 Ranked Blog on Urbanspoon….what a great accomplishment in so little time.  But once you start reading their reviews you understand why…they have a straight forward, common sense approach to critiquing restaurants….these are reviews for folks like you and I who want the bottom line as to the quality, service and value of a restaurant.  There have been many times when Margaret and I have taken their recommendations never to be disappointed.  And there have been times when we’ve decided against trying a restaurant because Roger and Eve have already done so to negative reviews (thanks for saving us the time and $$).

So check out their blog and if it serves you as well as it has us Follow it….it just may  steer you toward some great new eats or save you some hard won dollars from visiting restaurants not worthy of your time.

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ABOUT THE BLOG

What happens when two people who like to eat out (and take pictures of their food) start a food blog? We go out to dinner every Friday as a standing date night. Fridays are great for eating out…everyone wants to celebrate the end of the work week and we have found that restaurants tend to have a festive buzz about them on Friday nights. Sometimes we go out on other nights and occasionally we will go to a restaurant media event or go on a lunch date. We have been blogging about our experience since June, 2011.

Who are we? We are a couple of television directors who have been married for 30+ years. We hate sitting in traffic on Fridays and would much rather have a nice beer and a meal instead of stressing out in Atlanta bumper-to-bumper. We live in Marietta, but as you will see, that doesn’t stop us from sampling restaurants from all over the ATL. Our only rule is that we try to go to a different place every week. You will enjoy our culinary adventures throughout the city.

For feedback or to get in touch with us, our e-mail is strauss@mindspring.com.

Our social media is:
Twitter: @FridayDateNight
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/datenightfriday

We hope you enjoy the blog, and let us hear from you.

Two More Mini Movie Reviews

Once again Margaret’s fingers were typing away to review the two movies we viewed this past weekend; one at the theater, one on DVD.  My comments follow each….

Mini Movie Review: American Sniper – yes, I’m late on this one. Many of you have seen it and I’m sure have heard all the bruhaha about it. I am not getting into that. As a movie, I thought it was extremely well made and well acted. Intense? YES! Humorous? YES Sad? YES True? Mostly. I cannot imagine being in a war and keeping it together like these young men did. God bless them and ALL soldiers who put themselves in harms way – whether we agree or not with wars, someone has to fight them. Thank a vet when you see one. Grade = B+  Peter’s comments; this movie stays with you well after you leave the theater.  Very intense, very real.  Clint Eastwood has crafted an excellent movie…the direction seems effortless.  As with his last couple films, I never felt I was watching a Clint Eastwood movie.  Whether you support the efforts of politicians that decide on what wars to fight, or abhor them, see this movie to understand what those decisions mean for those who are put into battle.

Mini Movie Review: DVD rental. Lucy w/Scarlett Johannsen/Morgan Freeman – This is a SciFi movie – which is NOT my preferred genre. I really, really liked this one. ScarJo is a woman who innocently is forced into the world of drugs, violence and much more. She has to use her wits to survive. Her brain is enhanced, but I won’t give away how. She is terrific as a terrified young woman who will do what she has to in order to survive. Check this one out even if you don’t like SciFi – it’s worth the rental fee. Grade = B (warning: extreme violence)  Peter’s comments; pure fun!  This is a movie that doesn’t take itself too seriously, it’s just non-stop science fiction fun that makes you think.  Yes there’s a background of extreme violence (so extreme to be almost comical), but the premise is thought provoking.  Amongst the shooting and blowing up the storyline brings to mind one’s mortality, the earth, the solar system, evolution, infinite space and our place as humans in it.  It stuck with me….

Obituary For A Friend I Never Met

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Harry and Ron welcoming Ernie….

 

While having my first few sips of coffee early Saturday morning I went to the CNN app on my iPhone….top story headline read ‘Mr. Cub Ernie Banks dies in Chicago at 83’…my heart sank.  ernie202wayGrowing up in Chicago in the fifties, sixties or even the early seventies you’ll understand how this headline would be a sucker punch to the stomach.  And even if you were one of those  Chicagoan’s who mistakenly rooted for the Sox over the Cubs this news was sure to sting.   Ernie Banks represented an era of baseball, and for that matter professional sports, when the game is what mattered most, not the fame and money, and with him that era died.  Always the consummate professional Mr. Cub represented all that was good about baseball.

There are so many memories tied to the love of the Cubbies from my days growing up in Chicago….memories that are not learned but are in your DNA.  As long suffering fans we can’t help ourselves when, at the beginning of each season, we know deep down that this will be “our” year.  What kid in Chicago didn’t want Ernie’s #14 sewn onto his home made jersey while playing baseball in the alley, an alley barely wide enough for a single car to pass, but for us it was like playing at Wrigley Field.  And what about those Saturday afternoon games at Wrigley with your dad, sitting in the right field stands or, if by some luck, box seats on the first base line so you can see Ernie work his magic at first.  Unfortunately I’m too young to remember when Ernie shined as the greatest short stop of all time until Cal Ripken Jr. came along.  And if you were there, as I fortunately was, who can forget Ernie Banks Day at Wrigley in the late sixties when Ernie hit a home run and the place went wild (“hey-hey”)!

Banks was awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom by President Barack Obama
Banks was awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom by President Barack Obama

So if you’re not from Chicago you may ask what made Ernie Banks such a great player?  His stats speak for his role on the field (see below) but his personality speaks to him as a role model.  His passion was playing baseball, having a good time doing so, putting on a great show for his audience and making himself available to the fans.  He never shied away from a handshake, never ended a game not wanting to “play two” and never started a season without a motto; “The Cubs are great in sixty-eight”, “The Cubs will shine in sixty-nine”.  He always had a smile on his face, a good word to say about his fellow players and the optimism that the Cubbies had a chance at the pennant.  He was just a good guy.

Since his death just hours ago so many great articles have been written by real writers…here are links to some of my favorites.

http://chicago.cubs.mlb.com/chc/history/chc_feature_banks.jsp

http://espn.go.com/chicago/mlb/story/_/id/12219755/ernie-banks-former-chicago-cubs-great-dies-age-83

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/01/23/ernie-banks-cubs-dead-dies_n_6536258.html

The Moth (not the flying kind)

I love listening to podcasts downloaded from iTunes on my iPod when I’m out walking or driving around town.  I have several that are in my repertoire; This American Life, Snap about-mothJudgement, WTF (use your imagination), Wait Wait Don’t Tell Me, Fresh Air, Here’s The Thing, SERIAL (more on that in a future blog) etc…  Most of these are podcasts taken from weekly public radio programs, but I like to download the podcasts to enjoy on my schedule.  My favorite podcast is called The Moth, ‘True Stories Told Live’.  The concept is simple; people telling stories based on a theme without the use of notes or scripts told in front of live audiences.  “Moth Ups” are held all over the country, although the podcasts are taken from Moth Ups with ‘really good’ story tellers.  Even though I like almost all of the stories every once in a while there’s one that really moves me, and the four stories on the Moth Up Hour I listened to this morning were all outstanding.  This particular Moth Up was presented at the World Science Festival from a couple months back.  Here’s a link to their website to listen now or download for future listening.  Be sure to listen to all four; the last one titled Who Can You Trust has an amazing ending.  Enjoy!  And if you have a favorite podcast please share it with all of us…. Click HERE. Read more

Guest Blog From Ron Feinberg

Our friend Ron Feinberg spent forty years as a professional journalist, thirty of those years with the AJC.  Following is a post from recent travels with his wonderful wife Wendy….enjoy!

Some folks stay busy in retirement traveling … here’s how a few friends spent their winter vacation…..

New York, New York, it’s a helluva town …  On the Town

So yet again the lovely Miss Wendy and I were in the Big Apple last week, enjoying the sights, sounds and, yes, even the frigid weather. Hey, it’s the one time each year that I have the opportunity to wear a really heavy coat, a scarf and gloves. Cover up just right, and even when it’s sleeting, you just might manage to feel toasty and warm while looking cool in water-resistant basic black!

And so it was that Wendy and I found ourselves high up in the balcony of the Lyric Theatre on 42nd Street, waiting out the final minutes before the curtain went up for “On the Town,” a glorious revival of the happening musical that first hit Broadway during the waning days of World War II.

Those of us of a certain generation will recall the movie version of the show, starring Frank Sinatra, Gene Kelly and Jules Munshin; focusing on the ups, downs and conquests of a trio of sailors on a 24-hour leave in the Big Apple.

Wendy and I had, in fact, been in the city for several days and, in a fashion, had been playing out the touristy bits of the show; making it uptown and down, even riding in a “hole in the ground”, living out the frenetic tone set in the show’s signature number:

New York, New York, a visitor’s place,
Where no one lives on account of the pace,
But seven millions are screaming for space.
New York, New York, it’s a visitor’s place!

Indeed, a visitor’s place! Have I mentioned the food?

Wendy and I once again managed to eat our way across Manhattan, adding a few new and nicer restaurants — Le Marais, a kosher steakhouse in midtown and Rafale, an Italian ristorante in the village — to our usual stops at delis offering up a smorgasbord of Jewish delights: matzo ball soup and mushroom barley; corned beef and pastrami; chopped liver, lox and bagels; knishes, kugel and kasha varnishkes! If you have to ask, well, let’s just say kasha is a Jewish delicacy and leave it at that!

Now pass the Rolaids or, better yet, Bromo-Seltzer!

Somewhere deep in our gluttony, we managed to push back our dinner plates and make it to several Broadway musicals. Aside from “On the Town,” we tapped our tootsies at “Wicked” and “A Gentleman’s Guide to Love and Murder”.

What lingers about most when thinking of these two shows is the final number in “Wicked” leading into intermission, “Defying Gravity”. As some of you may recall, Elphaba, the lovely and talented Caroline Bowman, tells us that it’s time for her to trust her instincts and “leap,” time to defy gravity.

And, wow, does she soar, high above the stage and audience. It’s one of those transcendent moments in theater when most everything — the music, singing, lights and special effects — blend together splendidly, offering up a fantasy that momentarily springs to life.

Another such moment took hold at the Lyric Theater, seconds after the lights dimmed but a moment before the curtain went up for “On the Town.” As I mentioned earlier, Wendy and I were high above the stage, surrounded by tourists and locals, folks from around the world and down the block; all of us settling in for a little fun and frothy entertainment.

The front of the stage was covered with an American flag, a huge piece of artwork that I thought in some fashion might be linked to the red, white and blue vibe of the show — you know, sailors out and about in search of fun and romance!

With little fanfare, the full orchestra began playing the national anthem — yes, the U.S. National Anthem! I looked about, a bit puzzled, and spotted folks around me looking around, confused and uncertain how to react. Was this part of the show? Should we stand?

One by one, then row after row, people began rising, then singing. The orchestra played with gusto and, taken with it all, the audience responded. After only a moment, the Star Spangled Banner filled the theater, the acoustics catching the lyrics and tossing them about, a chilling spectacle that built on itself. The final words, “land of the free … and the home of the brave,” hung lightly in the air as the room went absolutely quiet, then burst into spontaneous cheers.

The flag lifted, the show began and five minutes into the production we were lost in the music and lyrics of  Leonard Bernstein, Betty Comden and Adolph Green as we learned that “the Bronx is up, but the Battery’s down … people ride in a hole in the ground … New York, New York … it’s a helluva town.”

And so it is!

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Movies, Movies and More Movies

The end of the year and beginning of the new bring lots of movies to review.  Our tastes are fairly particular as one can see from the movies we post.  Fantasy, science fiction, shoot-em-and-blow-em-up are not our cup of tea but they may be yours.  If so write a review and I’ll be glad to post….everyone likes something different.  That said, here’s Margaret’s most recent Mini Movie Review; Read more

You’re Nuts?

Or should I say ‘your’ nuts?  I’ve been following Dr. Gabe Mirkin’s Fitness & Health e-Zine for several years.  Dr. Mirkin has kept on the cutting edge of keeping and maintaining a healthy body whether you’re an athlete or someone who enjoys good health.  Dr. Mirkin is a seventy-something long time athlete who runs circles around those less than half his age.  What I love about his articles is that everything is based on long term research and facts, not just his opinion on a subject.  He purports that a healthy diet and regular exercise will equal a long, active life for most of us.  The following is one example of a recent article from his e-Zine that I found very interesting.  You may want to sign up for his e-Zine to be delivered to your inbox so you won’t miss any of his excellent advice;

Why Nuts Don’t Make You Fat

Nuts are a rich source of fat, but many studies have shown that the fat in nuts is absorbed very poorly. This month a study explains why nuts are not fattening (American Journal of Clinical Nutrition, 2015 Jan;101(1):25-33). The fat in almonds is located inside the almond cells. Even after prolonged chewing, most of the almond cells remained intact and the fat was still inside the cells. Since fat is absorbed only after it is released from cells, most of the fat in almonds cannot be absorbed in the upper part of your intestinal tract. This explains why the calorie count of nuts is really lower than what you read on the label.The calorie counts shown on food labels are computed from how much heat can be produced by the food in a laboratory. However, this method of measuring calories is meaningless for foods that are poorly absorbed. The number of calories listed on the label can be much higher than those a person actually absorbs; many of the potential calories pass through, undigested, in the person’s stool. This explains why blood fat levels are lower than expected after a person eats nuts. Another study showed that roasting almonds does not increase the absorption of fat over that absorbed from raw almonds (Br J Nutr, 2014 Nov 14;112(9):1521-9). Some of the fat that has passed through the upper intestines is absorbed after the nuts reach the colon, where bacteria ferment the cell walls to release some of the fat (Am J Clin Nutr, 2004 Sep;80(3):604-13).

Nuts Appear to be Healthful
Epidemiologic studies (on populations) associate eating nuts with reduced likelihood to suffer heart attacks, gallstones, diabetes, and cancer. Many studies show that eating nuts lowers high blood pressure, cholesterol, belly fat, and metabolic syndrome; and that nuts are not associated with gaining weight (Nutrients, 2010 July;2(7):652-82).

This week a study reports that eating almonds reduces belly fat, the type of fat that causes diabetes and heart attacks (Journal of the American Heart Association, published online 1/11/15). Fifty-two middle-aged, apparently healthy but obese adults with high levels of the bad LDL cholesterol were placed on a heart-healthy diet and were fed daily either:
* 1.5 ounces (42 grams) of whole almonds, or
* a banana muffin with the same number of calories as the almonds.
After 6 weeks, those eating almonds had lower total cholesterol and bad LDL cholesterol levels. Those eating the muffins had their good HDL cholesterols lowered. The almond-eaters also had smaller waist circumferences and less of the belly fat that leads to diabetes. Both groups had the same body weight and total body fat measures.

Why Nuts are More Healthful than Muffins
The almond snack that was given to the study patients contained 30-35 almonds (1.5 ounces), with 240 calories, 20 grams of fat, (primarily monounsaturated) and 4.7 grams of fiber. The muffins contained the same number of calories, but had less fiber, less monounsaturated fat and far more sugar and starch.

A high rise in blood sugar can damage every cell in your body. Muffins are made from flour which causes a much higher rise in blood sugar than whole grains do. Whole grains have a thick capsule that prevents the rapid absorption of sugars and other carbohydrates into your bloodstream. Grains are full of carbohydrates which can be absorbed only as single sugars. When you grind a whole grain into a powder, you remove the capsule around the whole grain and markedly increase the absorption of sugar to cause a high rise in blood sugar. Fat’s location inside the cells of nuts reduces absorption of the fat in the same way that the thick outer capsule around whole (unground) grains reduces the absorption of sugar.

What This Means for You
Go ahead and snack on nuts. Try to limit refined carbohydrates made by grinding plants into flour or by adding sugar to any food or drink. This means that you should restrict sugared drinks including fruit juices, and all foods made with any kind of flour: muffins, bread, pasta, pretzels, bagels, crackers, cookies and so forth.

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People, People Who Love People……

Not the song…..the mag!

For the first many years of our married life I did the majority of the family cooking.  My wife, Margaret, just wasn’t into it.  We were both working and playing full time and she found the addition of cooking to be more of a burden than something enjoyable.  I, on the other hand, never minded going into the kitchen, scrounging in the fridge and cabinets for a combination of ingredients that seemed to go together well….sometimes I even used a recipe!  So five and a half years ago Margaret retires after 30 years in the work force and finds she has more time, along with a modicum of guilt because I was still working full time,  and decides to take over the preparation of meals.  The first couple years it still seemed to be a burden more than a joy but she persevered and maybe, just maybe, started to enjoy cooking.  I’d hear her on the phone with my sister (an excellent cook who really enjoys cooking) asking advice that any novice ‘chef’ seeks.  She started to expand her repertoire, trying new and exciting recipes that I always enjoyed.  I was just so proud of her for tackling something she never really relished.

So last night I’m awakened out of a deep slumber  to the sound of Margaret’s excited voice on the phone with my sister.  After shaking out the cobwebs and confirming I was wasn’t dreaming, what I deciphered from her excited conversation was that she wasn’t only a more confident cook, she was able to prove it to the nation from her letter to the editor in People Magazine, proof that she had “made it’.  See for yourself……

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Two New ‘Mini Movie Reviews’ from Margaret

Yesterday morning I surprised Margaret saying I wanted to see the movie Unbroken, a movie I knew she wasn’t interested in seeing.  It has been a rainy, dreary week and we’ve seen all our ‘must see’ films.  So in a moment of weakness she agreed.  Even though the critics have not been kind to Unbroken I wanted to see it, if nothing else because I’d read the book and found it fascinating.  So following is her review with my comments following.  And be sure to read her review of Whiplash, a ‘small’ (low budget) film not to be missed!

Mini Movie Review: Unbroken – I put this one off for several weeks based on (negative) reviews and comments. I can honestly say……I liked it. Based on true story (Louie Zamperini) it takes us through a brief synopsis of his life before war. After a grueling time spent on a life boat adrift at sea, the main focus is the bad and very ugly of war, specifically Japanese POW camps. It’s amazing men survived the torture, the horrid conditions and much worse.(I had to look away a few times)This man’s fortitude is truly admirable and would not be believable except we know he was a real person and true hero. Grade = B  Peter says; I totally agree with her review.  My only criticism is that the movie was a bit too ‘Hollywood” or over produced.  Angelina Jolie knows how to craft a film but it’s a bit sterile, too slick.  Wanted to see some warts and all.

Another Mini Movie Review of Whiplash from Margaret:  “So excited this movie got two Oscar nods today – including Best Picture. Seek it out – you won’t be disappointed”.

Mini Movie Review: Whiplash – just WOW!! This is a very small Independent movie – maybe not at your local theater, but trust me, seek this one out. Teenage drummer wants to play with the “big boys” at music conservatory. Only thing standing in his way is one heck of an SOB teacher/conductor. Many ups, downs and drama. Acting terrific. Grade = solid A. Here’s IMBD to speak for me…..http://www.imdb.com/title/tt2582802/?ref_=nv_sr_1    Peter adds; JK Simmons just deservedly won a best supporting actor award at the Golden Globes.  Hopefully this will give the film a wider audience.

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