A Tragic Loss

It has been a few days since my last blog due to a tragic loss in our family.  I wasn’t going to write about this, but after several days of thought I felt I needed to.  One of my brother’s four daughters passed away January 2 after a two and a half year battle with breast cancer.  When she was diagnosed it was already categorized as stage 4.  Young woman in their late twenties are not suppose to have this worry, although it is becoming more common.  There’s no mandate for mammograms until a woman reaches 50…..this may have to change.

I found out so much about our amazing niece Corbin at her memorial this past weekend.  Although we knew her personality (sweet, direct, no-nonsense, smart….I could go on) what we didn’t know was the level of devotion she had as an educator.  Corbin was a truly selfless person deciding her passion was teaching kindergarten to underprivileged, non-English speaking kids in the Phoenix, AZ area.  These were kids who came to school without first having a breakfast.  For many the only real meal of the day was the hot lunch the school provided.  So first Corbin had to get these kids fed, then her passion for teaching would take hold.  And even though she didn’t speak Spanish her lessons resonated as she taught them English and all the other subjects kids learn at that young age.

The kids were the easy part….the parents not so much.  Most parents did not speak English, did not spend the time preparing their kids for the start of school like more fortunate families.  So communicating with parents, getting through to them was the most difficult part of Corbin’s job.  But it didn’t deter her.

I could go on and on with the stories we heard last weekend about the devotion and compassion Corbin had for her work…..but the best description was posted by my sister on Facebook;  “My family and I have just returned from Phoenix where we attended the memorial service for my niece, Corbin Leafman, who died from breast cancer at the tender age of 31. The service was sad, funny at times, and very moving. We learned things about Corbin from her parents and sisters that I was unaware of, things that make me want to be a better person.”   

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A Photo of Retirement….

Margaret and I saw these two guys on our hike today…they were enjoying the cold temps while smoking their pipe and cigar.  Told them now that we’re both retired we’ll come join them soon!

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Music Venues Worth a Look….and Listen!

Our friend David Hedges, a musician and music educator, recommended some Atlanta music venues he enjoys:

“Coming up this Sunday, January 11, the Riverside Chamber Players (ASO musicians) will perform approachable chamber music that appeals to a wide range of folks.  They always have quite a nice wine and cheese tasting after the concert  –  2:00 PM Sunday in Norcross.”

2Eddies Attic “is a popular and intimate live music venue for aspiring and accomplished performing songwriters located in Decatur.”

EOP: Eddie Owen Presents in Duluth is a “music venue,  music school, and a home away from home for performing singer-songwriters and their fans. Based in Duluth, Georgia at Red Clay Music Foundry – a 260-seat listening room that hosts the most talented musicians on the planet.”

Steve’s Live Music in Sandy Springs “opened in June 2012, offers an intimate listening room (95 seats), which showcases local and national songwriters, and musicians.”
Have a favorite music venue to share; post a reply or send an email and I’ll be sure to post.
 

 

Don’t Try This At Home…Really!

I’m aware that not all of you out there are cyclists but many of my friends are.  That said, although the following is a cycling video, I feel non-cyclists will enjoy it too.  Warning: don’t show this to your kids or grandkids….don’t want to give them any crazy ideas.

My friend Greg brought this website to my attention: Global Cycling Network.  They produce dozens of great videos about what else….cycling (thus the name, duh!).  Greg and I started biking together 3 or 4 years back and now he’s turned into an animal (for you non-cycling folks that’s a BIG compliment).  Greg is also my “go to” tech wizard for any computer or Garmin (gps) issues.  Oh, and I should mention he’s one of the Atlanta areas best commercial photographers!

So check out the Global Cycling Network video below….and DON’T TRY THIS AT HOME!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WjN2cjBKWO4

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Miguel Zenón’s ‘Identities Are Changeable’

This video may not be for everyone  but it ‘spoke’ to me.  Great story, great musician.  I’m a big music fan who likes a variety of musical styles.  When I find something good I’ll post it here.  If you find something that inspires you post it in a response or send to me and I’ll post.  Lets make this interactive.  Enjoy!

http://www.npr.org/event/music/354587935/miguel-zen-ns-identities-are-changeable

 

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State of Georgia Offers Great Educational Opportunity For Those 62 or Over

Did you know that the state of Georgia university system offers free tuition for residents 62 years of age or over?!?  From the GSU-62 website;  “If you are aged 62 or over and would like to resume, continue or begin a college education, you are considered a GSU-62 applicant. This program is designated to allow eligible applicants to register for college-level courses for credit or audit on a space-available basis.”

For more information click HERE to be redirected to the GSU-62 websiteindex

Guest Blogger: Margaret McDaniel…my extradorinary wife!

That's Margaret with her new friend Greg Lemond!
That’s Margaret with her new friend Greg Lemond!

As some of you may know my wife and I love going to the movies.  And many of you have read her ‘mini movie’ reviews on Facebook.  Following are three recent reviews with my comments following….

Mini Movie Review: Into the Woods – The biggest surprise of this movie is…..Meryl Streep can SING! Beautifully. A fun movie with a sweet story. It is a musical with fabulous lyrics (thanks Stephen Sondheim). And, it includes many of your Fairy Tale faves: Little Red Riding Hood, BB Wolf, Jack/Beanstalk, Cinderella, Rapunzel and a couple others that are less known. There are quite a few laughs and wonderful singing. Being that’s it’s Sondheim, there’s no guarantee of “happily ever after”. But the trip getting there is great. Grade = B+  Peter says; Great acting, music, lyrics, visuals….but too long.  I was bored about two-thirds of the way through.  That said, if you plan on seeing it do so on a big screen.

Mini Movie Review: Foxcatcher – This movie is…..hard to watch, but excellent. Put this one in category of movies that make you squirm. Not in the true “horror” sense, but in the “this is making me uncomfortable” sort of way. True story of John DuPont (one of richest families in US) who is a “wanna be”. He wants the love of his mother, his country, and most of all the love and accolades that comes with being affiliated with champions. He will use his $$$$ and intimidation to have it all. Steve Carrell is virtually unrecognizable, and definitely not a comic in this. Grade = B+  Peter says; Wow, this was one screwed up rich guy.  Money doesn’t always buy happiness or friends.  Steve Carrell is excellent as are the others.  Not a film one needs to view on the big screen….although I usually prefer to.

Mini Movie Review: The Imitation Game – If you are a math genius, you will certainly enjoy this one. Those of us who are……not(!)…. will too! A young man is assigned to help break the code the Germans are using for WWII warfare. Against all orders and wishes of those in command, he perseveres to find just the right configuration – via “machine” which is the birth of the computer. Exciting, suspenseful, sweet and sometimes sad. This is one of the year’s best. IMHO. Grade = A  Peter says; This movie is a solid “A”….excellent true story and outstanding performances.  It’s not just about the code breakers….it’s about a tortured soul who happens to also be a genius.  See it!

Day 2; What’s It All About

Here it is day #2 of my retirement and what did I do all morning?  Work, that’s what.  Almost have the bookkeeping for the year complete so I can turn it over to my now ex-business partner and not have to worry about it again.

So why am I doing this blog?  What’s the motivation behind it?  A few weeks back I thought it would be a good idea to let people know what I was doing, not for my ego but to share my interests so other ‘retirees’ or ‘soon to be retirees’ or those with ‘time for activities other than work’ can see that there’s life after your professional life ends.  There’s lots to do out there, and as our financial planner states from research conducted for his new book, to be a happy, fulfilled retiree you need 3-4 outside activities.  I don’t feel that’s going to be a problem for me!  Here’s the unsolicited plug for the Wes Moss book You Can Retire Sooner Than You Think; buy it!  Of course Wes goes into his investment strategies but more importantly he outlines the items that make for a happy retirement…it’s really a very good book that makes a lot of sense.  So I’ll share what I’m doing and hopefully you’ll share what you’re doing and we can all stay busy and have fulfilled lives.

Enough of that and on to Day #2; had lunch at a newish restaurant that Atlanta Magazine says is one of the best new restaurants in 2014; The General Muir.  Basically it’s an upscale deli that has a vibrant vibe, traditional and funky menu items, an excellent bakery and a full bar.  We had an excellent meal.  Roger and Eve reviewed The General in their excellent blog (Friday Date Night) stating  “The bottom line on the General Muir: If you are anywhere near Emory, run, don’t walk to this restaurant. And save room for dessert”.  For a more in-depth review see their blog reviewing The General.

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January 1, 2015….the start of a new life!

As you hopefully read on the opening page of this bog today is DAY NUMERO UNO of my retirement.  I’m a baby to retirement, a virgin.  So whether you’ve been retired for years or are as new to retirement as me lets share this experience.  So here’s my first day….

Normally I loath the first day of the year.  I stay up late new year’s eve, don’t sleep enough so feel grouchy all day, hate to be with too many people, feel crappy because in a day or two the work year starts all over again.  But today’s different (although I did stay up late, didn’t sleep enough, etc…) but I don’t have to start the new work year….wow, now that’s exciting.  So what did I do today; my favorite activity….a bike ride.  The morning was cold (and I was cranky) so I waited until the afternoon when the temps warmed up to a brisk 48 degrees.  Got in a solo 30 mile ride from home…felt great.  Met a couple other cyclists, pushed myself…great way to start the year.  And now this, a blog….so tell me, what did you do the first day of the year? IMG_0549

 

 

 

 

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